It’s a full time job keeping a relationship fresh and not letting it fall victim to the drudgery of routine. Here’s 5 tips you can put into play today that may just score you some brownie points with your lady.
#1 – You need to make an effort, don’t stop trying to make her happy
I have seen this one over and over again. It’s almost like you just become content with things and don’t feel like you need to put in anymore effort. This leads to disconnect, and eventual breakup. While your crying staring at pornhub you ask yourself: Why? Why? Why? It’s because you stopped trying. When things are fresh in a relationship you’re constantly trying to impress the chick and out-do would be competitors, once you have “Made the catch” you drift off and grow a beer gut, things become more habit and less exciting.
#2 – Cook some good food, it may just make her nipples hard
It really is the simple things in life, one of the simplest (Yet most complex) things we encounter is eating. Everyone likes to eat, except for people who don’t, but we don’t like those people. One tip I offer thee is to chef up a meal for your partner, complete with wine and clean silverware. Women don’t care as much about what you’re doing for them as long as your making an effort, some kind of display of “Hey babe, I care”. So while in your mind your thinking “Wow, this steak is going to be bomb diggity”, She’s thinking “Wow, he’s making an effort for me. Maybe he will change diapers when we have kids and do the laundry to”.
#3 – Listen to her when she’s talking
This may be a no brainer, but you’d be surprised how many people have a hard time truly listening. Half the time they are thinking about what they are about to say to you because the first three words of your story reminded them of a time they went camping and caught a bull frog. And that shit needs to be said. Yeah we know, the game is important to. But try to really listen and you may just find yourself getting brain and head!
#4 – Buy her a gift, but for god sakes not flowers or chocolates everytime
Chicks dig it when you buy them things, even if it’s just a little $5 bracelet you found at a hippie stand on the common. It goes with that whole “Oh hey he thinks about me when he’s out and about” vibe. It’s always cool when you spice things up, or you could just go ahead and buy chocolates, bitches love chocolate.
#5 – Buy her some lingerie
Just do it. You will thank me later.